Soulmate…it’s interesting!!

Most of us have heard of someone saying or atleast in the movies that – ‘he is my soulmate’ or ‘she is my soulmate’! What is this soulmate all about anyway?

Well, it’s nothing but a companion that you have ‘forever’ coz souls have no end per se!They connect emotionally well and bond quite magically that has no separation even after life! Now let me get to the part of how ‘soulmates are interesting’ after giving you a background of related interesting facts/beliefs!

When we die, our respective souls get a big time vacation period! They wander around for few days before their close ones give a farewell to them by doing some Kriyas. After which, the souls travel to their destiny based on their cumulative performance/testimonials on earth (Karma’s) either to heaven or hell. The destiny is obviously decided by the boss/god who is a responsible authority to send us to earth with one and only purpose which is- ‘to face troubles’! [So if you are there praying god to get you out of all the troubles or blaming everything on fate doing nothing about your problems...then think again! Coz how we face our troubles and overcome them is big time assessed up there and therefore this saying certainly is not a joke- ‘god helps only those who help themselves’]

Basically, there are about seven levels up there to settle down after physical death. The first three are bloody hell. The fourth one is a balance b/n hell and heaven! Fifth and sixth is heaven! And seventh is the ultimate heaven or what we call in here as ‘Vaikunta’! So every soul wants to upgrade themselves to better and reach Vaikunta ultimately. But accomplishing this task out there ain’t easy! It takes hundreds of years to attain Solace or Moksha up there especially if you are in hell. Hence, such deprived souls or the relative of such souls request god’s permission to send them to earth which is like a crash course to upgrade themselves quickly! [Indeed all this fact is known to your own subconscious mind which we tend to keep inactive very efficiently ;). To wake up that mind is a tough task which is perhaps what Hypnotism or a Meditation or in Kannada what we call ‘Sadhane’ is all about!]

Anyway having given you this background as to why we are here, it’s not necessary that your soulmate is also around facing troubles with you or end up with you on earth as your partner although it could happen sometimes. I relate such things to love@first sight or love in all imperfections! Or chances are that your soulmate could be destined with someone else on earth learning their share of lessons! Or He/she could be up there in a much better level waiting for you to clean up! Or the worse could be that someone who annoys you to death could turn out to be your soulmate once you die!!

Just like down here on earth, isn’t it interesting to have some suspense stored about your mate after death? Or for that matter, the person whom you are constantly thinking about while reading this article could be your…….never know;) interesting….isn’t it??

Signing off for now,

Achu

I like excuses :)

“Oh! Thank god you called!! I changed my cell and had lost your number”

- Indeed, above is the popular excuse for a call back that’s floating around irrespective of the caliber of the people. That means, the world is getting super rich to care enough to change the gadgets pretty often! Phew;)

Here is another eg of an excuse -“I am not sure if I can make it in the coming weekend but let me see”-hmmm now the word ­see=halfheartedness! Although sometimes it might be genuine, the majority vote belongs to excuse category!!

“Come on man…toss another peg for me…after all India won!!”–this is a typical man’s excuse to extend his regard to the country’s victory;)

“Oh come on, it doesn’t kill me to have one tiny chocolate mousse on my colleagues b’day!!”-this must be from a woman you know ;)

Likewise, a man’s standard excuse to a woman would be him getting busy overnight at work! So busy that he cant care enough for a breath! God bless him and his contradictions later on:)

And you can’t beat the woman’s standard excuse to a man simply by saying that- “I have a headache :)”

Well apart from these interesting excuses, what about those sweetest excuses which make you to revamp your life? That gives you reasons to come back to family, to renew your love, to be together, to party around and to have a vacation and most importantly to start over!! I think one such adorable excuse is the New Year’s wherein the world comes together and celebrates! Actually every single day we are blessed with a brand new day but we take an extra effort to recognize that one day, a start of the year which makes a difference in most of the aspects and the resolutions!

I adore New Year’s and the B’days and especially if any surprises come by those days! Infact this time had a very pleasant experience on New Years Eve and would like to make a mention of it here:- Having found so difficult to find one likeable dress to the finest poolside party that could match my favourite stilettos, I finally compromised on the formal dress and bought a casual dress which matched very well with my stilettos that I was bent upon wearing. Surprisingly, it turned out that the theme of the party was perfectly suiting my attire and that coincidence indeed made that evening become utmost special to me:)”

Anyway, the New Years are as such truly special coz the beginnings are always exciting and filled with energy! It’s the time to sack the previous year’s bankruptcy and enrich the best in the coming year! It’s an opportunity seen by the mind and the heart and its fulfilling! And on such special occasion, I cannot excuse myself from wishing you and your close ones a very Happy 2011!! Have a rollicking year ahead!!

Those who are doing well in life, continue to rock on…

Those who are doing average, roll up to move on to the best…

Those who are yet to do something in life…don’t worry and kick start now…the year has just begun...

Signing off for now,

Achu